Know your limits!
Whether serving a Dominatrix for the first time, serving a new Dominatrix, in and online or real-time setting; it is extremely important to know what your hard limits are.
Hard limits are fetishes and BDSM activities you are absolutely NOT into and it is vitally important that you advise your Mistress of any and all limits you have. That way; you ensure your session is not an unpleasant experience.
Similarly; it is just as important for Mistress to ensure you are aware of HER limits - and yes many Dommes will have them. Once you know what is and isn't Her thing; you will know what not to ask for. This avoids you insulting your Mistress by asking for things She does not offer.
Limits should ALWAYS be respected, by BOTH parties. This is why honest communication is paramount when it comes to approaching a Dominatrix for the first time. You shouldn't be placed in a situation you aren't comfortable with. Neither should you place Mistress in a situation She isn't comfortable with. While there is a certain element of negotiation before any BDSM sessions; limits are NEVER open to negotiation.
Generally speaking; unless you're serving a Dominatrix who likes to engage in taboo fetishes; you will find that most will not engage in activities of an illegal nature. At the same time, and particularly in the case of Dommes like Myself, who only offer online training; there will certain legal activities which are too risky to do in an online setting. Such fetishes will include sounding, breath play, cutting/scarring, branding, and needle play.
In the case of those serving; many will be adverse to marks or scars being left, particularly if they have a partner who is unaware of their kinky side. There may also be medical or ethical reasons why they don't want to engage in certain activities, or simply; it's just not for them.
For the record; My hard limits are as follows:
While these areas are My "no-go" areas; you will find that I'm very open-minded and non-judgemental. So if you there is a particular activity you wish to explore in an online session; then feel free to contact Me to discuss. And don't forget - I need to know your limits too!