Why your first impression is your one chance.
When you contact Mistress for the first time; it's important to be very conscious of the impression you want to create. Create a good first impression and you're likely to get a response. Create a bad first impression and it's likely that your email won't be read it it's entirety.
Those who have desire to serve Me should see My services as an exclusive online club. I pick and choose who I feel has what it takes to serve Me and believe Me; I have VERY high standards. I expect you to meet those standards from day one. If you don't; you can be sure that your chances of serving are non-existent.
Here are My Dos & Donts on how to ensure you convey the right impression in your initial application:
DO ensure your email is polite and courteous. This means using the correct salutation. I never respond to emails which do not start with "Dear Mistress."
DON'T assume things about Mistress. You run the risk of asking for things Mistress doesn't offer. This shows Me you haven't made the effort to do your homework.
DO introduce yourself to Mistress in a well-written and succinct manner. While I don't want to read an application which is the length of War and Peace; neither do I want to read an application of only one sentence.
DON'T expect a chance to serve in return for gifts or tributes. Gifts are given freely, without expecting anything in return.
DO include details are your kink interests and fetishes. I want to ensure we have mutual tastes before I consider you.
DON'T be vague when it comes to your kink interests and fetishes. Mistress is not a mind-reader.
DO indicate how you wish to serve, i.e. webcam, phone or email. Again, Mistress is not a mind-reader.
DON'T make demands. Emails containing the words "I want" are ALWAYS ignored.
DO explain how you feel you can be useful in entertaining & amusing Mistress. Remember; your servitude is not about your needs. It's about the desires of Mistress.
DON'T expect to explore ass worship from the off. You are expected to prove yourself to be worthy before I consider you for that. The same applies to consensual blackmail.
DO tell Mistress about your hard limits. And be honest about this! I want you to enjoy yourself. I don't want you find our sessions to be a bad experience.
DON'T assume anything about Mistress' hard limits. If in doubt, ask. Never guess!
DO be respectful in your email. Applying to serve Me is a lot like applying for a job. A casual over-familiar application is not going to create a good first impression.
DON'T be obsequious. I can instantly tell when you're attempting to butter Me up. I also find begging for attention a definite turn off. Those tactics will never wash with Me.
DO retweet and promote Mistress if you follow Me on social media. This shows you are devoted and eager to please.
DON'T assume you will be owned or under consideration from the first session. This takes time. It takes servitude, devotion, obedience & loyalty and is not always guaranteed.
DO tell Mistress about any previous experience you have had. It helps to know how seasoned you are in the world of fetish & BDSM.
DON'T send pictures unless Mistress specifically asks for them. NEVER EVER send dick pics. That is the fastest route to being blocked.
DO be patient. If Mistress is interested; I will contact you. If you do not hear from Me within in a week, you should assume you have failed to interest Me. Neither will I accept a second application from you. If you have failed to interest Me; then your journey has ended and it's time to move on.
DON'T apply to serve if you are owned or under consideration by another Domme. I'm nobody's second choice - especially not yours.
DO volunteer information about any BDSM equipment you own. This helps to map out a possible session.
DON'T negotiate on My rates. I'm not a market stall. NEVER attempt to get a "free taster". I'm not a car you can take for a test drive.
DO include your date of birth. Remember; you MUST be aged 21 or over to serve Me.
DON'T badger Mistress with repeated emails if you haven't received a response within minutes of sending the first one. It will only suggest that you are needy. I have no use for needy boys.
DO ensure you have a basic knowledge of BDSM BEFORE you apply. You cannot go into the scene blindly. It will almost always end badly for you.
DON'T assume you will receive relief every time. It is My choice as to when and indeed IF you are deserving of it.
DO proof-read your initial email before you send it. Spelling and grammar mistakes tell Me that you are lazy and lack attention to detail.
DON'T make declarations of love. It's creepy and it's a definite turn off.
DO make Mistress aware of any health issues you have. Safe, sane & consensual play is paramount.