KEEPING YOU SAFE AT ALL TIMES
As your Mistress; I take My responsibilities to your health and well-being VERY seriously. This means that I will always ensure that no matter how we play; I will be the one who ensures you come to no physical or emotional harm.
Being a Dominatrix, whether it be real-time and online comes with a lot of responsibility and knowledge. I am not just enjoying Myself whilst giving you the freedom to express your kinks. I'm also ensuring you come to no harm.
When it comes to certain BDSM practices like poppers intox and electrics; I will be asking you a series of questions about your health. For example; poppers are known to cause issues with those who have a history of hypertension, pulmonary problems or those who use viagra. Electrics can also cause problems in those with heart issues.
Then there is the issue of allergies. Some practices include the use of foodstuffs and plants; so I will be asking questions about your allergies to avoid the possibility of analphylaxis. Nettle torture is a particular practice which needs to be handled with care. Those allergic to insect stings are likely to be allergic to nettle stings.
And then there are those practices which carry an amount of risk. Recently; I had a sub who wanted to inhale foot dust. I told him no, simply because of the adverse effects it would have on his lungs. Remember boys; if I feel a particular kink or practice carries a high risk to your health; I have the right to say "no" at any time. I'm not doing this to be a kill-joy. I'm doing this to protect you. You have a personal responsibility to respect My decision.
Aftercare is also very important; and that includes emotional aftercare. After a particularly intense session; I find it very beneficial to determine how a slave is feeling both physically and emotionally. An informal and gentle chat at the end of the session, goes a long way to ensuring sub is in a good place. I want you to leave My sessions feeling happy and relaxed. I don't want to leave you with terrible emotional scars. Fetish is supposed to be fun and enjoyable for both parties.
I often give out instructions for self-care after the session; like how to help heal nettle stings, how to reduce the chance of bruising after caning and how to ensure any areas of broken skin are kept clean and free of bacterial infection.
SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL play is ALWAYS at the forefront of My mind when we play. As is Risk Awareness Consensual Kink. It is important that both parties go into fetish with their eyes wide open and be fully informed. It's not just about trust and being a responsible Domme or sub. It's common sense. And when common sense prevails; that's when the fun can begin!