Not sure if Mistress offers exploration of your particular fetish? Here's a list of things I am more than happy to explore!
Foot Fetish/Foot Worship
Looning/Balloons (with 24 hour's notice)
Small Penis Humiliation
Tease & Denial
Ruined Orgasm/Orgasm Torture
Strap On Training/Worship
Welly Fetish (with 24 hour's notice)
Latex (with 24 hour's notice)
Total Power Exchange
Water-sports For Him (you indulge for My amusement)
Sticky Tape Fetish
Trainer/sneaker Fetish (with 24 hour's notice)
Sploshing Fetish For Him (you indulge for My amusement)
Water Fetish for Him (you indulge for My amusement)
Covered Ass Worship
Smoking Fetish (you indulge for My amusement)
This list is not exhaustive and you may well have a fetish I haven't encountered before. If so; you can discuss with with an open-minded Mistress without judgement.
Every wanted to discuss your fetish? Want to know more about it? Want to know how to take it further? Perhaps you fetish is impacting on your vanilla life?
I'm happy to chat and help point you in the right direct.
Feel free to get in touch to book an online sessions, at the link below:
HOUSEHOLD KINK EQUIPMENT
Not everyone has the luxury of being able to stockpile loads of BDSM & kink equipment. Perhaps financial constraints permit this. Or maybe vanilla lifestyles make it impossible. But that doesn't have to prevent you from enjoying spending some online time with Mistress. That's why I have come up with a list of household kink toys, you can always use during our sessions:
Wasabi Paste (not for the feint of heart)
Fresh Ginger (not for the feint of heart - bring chopped cucumber)
Fresh chillies (not for the feint of heart - bring chopped cucumber)
Toothbrush & toothpaste
Ball of String
Toilet Roll Tube
Rolled Up Socks
Why I don't offer cigarette smoking clips & shows.
Smoking fetish is something I'm asked for on a regular basis and unfortunately; it is something I am unable to offer, with very good reason.
I was previously a smoker and in fact smoked 20 a day for approx 13 years. I regularly had the lectures from non-smokers and like many of those who like to enjoy tobacco; I was always of the school of thought that nothing bad will ever come of it.
All smokers see the the warnings on the packets, notices in the doctor's surgery, the adverts on the TV and we all have the "oh it'll never happen to me" thought. And I continued smoking away, despite these warnings...until My Grandfather was diagnosed with lung-cancer.
My Grandfather had smoked 60 a day from the age of 13. He smoked heavily back in the days when you could buy Woodbine cigarettes. He enjoyed a cigar at Christmas and when he had far too much to drink. He smoked cheap cigarettes that would rip your throat out from the first inhale. He too had the "oh it will never happen to me" mentality - until one day he saw the doctor about a niggling cough - and came out with a diagnosis of terminal lung cancer.
My Grandfather was not exactly what you could call "slim". He would happily polish off a family sized pork pie with lashings of bread and dripping, and think nothing of it. Even when he succumbed to gall stones; he still continued to over-eat (despite during each health scare, promising to throw the chip pan down the back garden.) He had also been diagnosed with carotid artery disease, and still continued to feed the "inner man" as he put it and smoke like a chimney.
In the space of just 4 months, I watched My Grandfather go from a being an overweight 19 stone; to wasting away to a skeleton. I watched him fight to breathe, vomit blood when the cancer spread to his oesophagus and cry in pain when it finally spread to his bones. He had started with two tumours; one the size of a fist in his left lung. The other the size of a golf ball in his right lung.
When the pain could no longer be managed at home; he was moved to a hospice. A proud man; he chose to walk down his garden path one last time, to the awaiting ambulance. He died 4 days later; just a month shy of what would have been his 85th birthday. He was the third person in My family to die of cancer. My great Uncle; My Grandfather's brother (also a smoker), had succumbed to pancreatic cancer many years before. The time between diagnosis and death was just two weeks.
My half-cousin had succumbed to breast cancer previously. The following year; My Aunt succumbed to breast and bone cancer after a short battle. Cancer is obviously prevalent in My family.
So with the death of My Grandfather; I gave up smoking, and switched to vaping. In September 2018; it will be 5 years since I last had a cigarette. While I do occasionally get the odd craving; the memory of My dying Grandfather quickly squashes those cravings until they're gone.
It is for this reason I do not and will not ever offer smoking fetish shows or clips. While there is no conclusive evidence of what actually can trigger cancer; the fact that 5 people in My family have all died of it, is pretty conclusive evidence to not invite the disease in by smoking.
So Smoking Fetish is a hard limit. I'm happy to provide vaping fetish content and sessions; because it has far less risks. But I will not severely risk My health so that you can get off. It's not happening.
For those who do smoke; I hate to be the typical cliched non-smoker, but learn from this. I thought it would never happen to Me. The only reason it hasn't is because it got a bit too close to home for My liking. Never say never.
THE 10 RULES OF SERVITUDE.
Now that you have found Me; you are already growing weak with the desire to serve Me. I am on your mind constantly; and you know that deep down; there is no escape. The only option available to you is to serve. But before you do; you need to understand and accept My rules:
These are My rules and the rules you will agree to live by if you wish to serve as My submissive. It is your job to ensure you know these rules inside and out. It is your job to memorise them until they are stored in your tiny little brain and until they become second nature.
Practise the rules until they are going through your pea brain over and over again. Then we shall see if you are worthy of serving Me. I have very high expectations and I will only accept the best.
If you think you have what it takes to serve Me; then you will come to Me on your knees and demonstrate that you have fully understand My rules, if you are to have any chance of earning My consideration..
NOW ACCEPTING GOOGLE PAY!
Good news boys! Mistress is now accepting Google Pay for tributes and fees! Fast, free and easy to use; all you need is a google pay account (formerly google wallet) and My email address to make a payment!
You can pay in pounds sterling, dollars or euros, without the fuss of using various different sites to purchase gift vouchers.
All the usual tribute methods are still available (Amazon UK GC, Delivery Code GC and NiteFlirt), but this method makes things easier for those who are unable to use these methods. What's more; Google Pay is also available as an android or Iphone app.
Isn't Mistress kind to you? Perhaps it's time to demonstrate your gratitude?
All Google Pay tributes/fees should be sent to email@example.com. When it comes to getting to your knees and submitting to My will; you've now run out of excuses.....
I'm all about making your jerk off sessions that bit more interesting. That's why I have many little games to play with you, one of them being Wank Bingo.
Wank Bingo is the ULTIMATE game of tease and denial, and is particularly fun with those boys who haven't emptied their balls for a while. Oh, how I love to see them squirm in frustration as they hope and pray they will get a "full house"!
The game is pretty straightforward. Ten bingo calls; each number determining how many strokes you may have before I make you stop and take your hand away from your worm. The tenth and final call is the amount of strokes you are permitted to stroke yourself to orgasm. If you manage it; that's a full house. If you don't; well you go away thoroughly aroused and frustrated.
Of course you'll probably want to play again straightaway. But that would be too easy. I will make you wait a full hour before you have another go..and if that hour coincides with Me logging off cam for the day - well that's even longer! Can you really stay on the edge of orgasm for so long? Well it's not like you have any say in the matter.
Wank Bingo can only be played via a webcam session and there is no point in stroking before the session starts - you'll only get to cum on the tenth call; assuming you have all the strokes you need.
Think you're brave enough to play? Then book your sessions via the link below!
THE CUM CHALLENGE
The Cum Challenge is definitely NOT for the fainthearted and is the ultimate in post orgasm torture!
In the three years it has been running; not one single boy has ever managed to pass it. Yes; it really is a challenge of mammoth proportions, but those who attempt it often come back over and over again, hoping they will be the one to finally pass it.
So what it is? In a nutshell; it is continuous masturbation. The clock starts ticking from the moment of you begin stroking. And you keep stroking; trying to beat clock - for I set a time by which you must explode.
Now you may think that's perfectly simple. And of course, you would be wrong. Because you have to do this not just once, but FIVE TIMES in a row, each time coming in the time I set, and not pausing your stroking for even half a second.
To make things even more difficult; you will have less and less time by which to cum. Do you really think you can cum within 30 seconds? Even after 4 previous orgasms? Well there's only one way to find out!
The winner of this deliciously sadistic challenge gets a very special prize - a FREE 20 minute topless cam session with Mistress. Twitching already? Then come and have a go if you think you're man enough!
The Cum Challenge can only be played during a webcam session. No stroking before. No leaving the session early. And definitely NO STOPPING stroking!
To book your place for a Cum Challenge sessions; simply click the link below and follow the instructions:
Intox sessions involve the inhaling or ingesting of a substance; to enable you to relax, become less inhibited and more susceptible to the suggestions and commands I give to you. It can be a very intense experience; and will often help you to discover things about yourself, you didn't even know you had.
In My intox session; I will happily allow you to use one of two substances - alcohol and poppers (Alkyl Nitrates.) I NEVER allow sessions with the use of illegal drugs or substances.
Alcohol intox sessions are self-explanatory; although I do enjoy watching you take shot after shot of your favourite tipple; as you become weak, submissive and powerless to resist. We all know the sudden rush of courage you get when you're drunk...how I will abuse that courage depends on how particularly sadistic I'm feeling.
Poppers however; is rather a different ball game and should be used with caution. It is for this reason that I do not, under any circumstances, conduct poppers intox sessions via text or phone chat. Safety first boys! It must always be conducted via webcam.
So how do poppers work? Usually in liquid form; they are inhaled under My command and this dilates the blood vessels; allowing more blood to get to the heart. This in turn causes the typical "rush" and light-headed feeling and because the blood vessels are dilated; sexual arousal and stimulation is heightened; especially in the case of masturbation or anal play.
Poppers are also very popular on the gay scene; because they aid relaxation of the anal sphincter; which means less likelihood of pain or resistance when it comes to anal penetration.
There are however, risks associated with poppers. Poppers should NEVER be used in the following circumstances:
Poppers are of course not without their risks. Use of them with any of the above conditions or circumstances can cause heart, lung and blood pressure problems or even death. Exposure to the skin can cause chemical burns. Overdosing on them can also cause death, which is why I always exercise caution during these sessions.
Indeed, intox sessions can be highly erotic and extremely intense. I always screen for any possible health problems before agreeing to such a session. Your health and well-being is priority as always. But if there are no issues which could affect your health; then I shall enjoy watching you grow weaker and weaker with every hit; until you are fully compliant, ready to do whatever My sadistic imagination commands....Did I mention that My sadistic ideas are infinite?
It truly is amazing the control I can exercise over you, once you are under the influence of just one little bottle of chemicals. I can blackmail you, I can financially rinse you, I can forced you to debase and dehumanise yourself for My amusement. I can control your life forever.
From the first sniff; that throbbing in your temples will begin. And so will your desire to serve. The more you inhale; the weaker you will become and any ounce of resistance will fade, until there is no longer any part of you which does not want to surrender to Me....
To book your intox session; simply click on the link below and follow the instructions.
Know your limits!
Whether serving a Dominatrix for the first time, serving a new Dominatrix, in and online or real-time setting; it is extremely important to know what your hard limits are.
Hard limits are fetishes and BDSM activities you are absolutely NOT into and it is vitally important that you advise your Mistress of any and all limits you have. That way; you ensure your session is not an unpleasant experience.
Similarly; it is just as important for Mistress to ensure you are aware of HER limits - and yes many Dommes will have them. Once you know what is and isn't Her thing; you will know what not to ask for. This avoids you insulting your Mistress by asking for things She does not offer.
Limits should ALWAYS be respected, by BOTH parties. This is why honest communication is paramount when it comes to approaching a Dominatrix for the first time. You shouldn't be placed in a situation you aren't comfortable with. Neither should you place Mistress in a situation She isn't comfortable with. While there is a certain element of negotiation before any BDSM sessions; limits are NEVER open to negotiation.
Generally speaking; unless you're serving a Dominatrix who likes to engage in taboo fetishes; you will find that most will not engage in activities of an illegal nature. At the same time, and particularly in the case of Dommes like Myself, who only offer online training; there will certain legal activities which are too risky to do in an online setting. Such fetishes will include sounding, breath play, cutting/scarring, branding, and needle play.
In the case of those serving; many will be adverse to marks or scars being left, particularly if they have a partner who is unaware of their kinky side. There may also be medical or ethical reasons why they don't want to engage in certain activities, or simply; it's just not for them.
For the record; My hard limits are as follows:
While these areas are My "no-go" areas; you will find that I'm very open-minded and non-judgemental. So if you there is a particular activity you wish to explore in an online session; then feel free to contact Me to discuss. And don't forget - I need to know your limits too!
LOCK IT UP!
Chastity is an essential part of your slave training; particularly in the case of sissy training, behaviour modification and pleasure control.
It is a fact that I get a great deal of pleasure from locking up your nasty little worm, and ensuring you remain in a state of desperate frustration. Who says you have to enjoy the freedom to play with yourself whenever you like? You don't. You need to be reminded as to who that thing between your legs, belongs to.
When you are chastised as a sissy; it is to remind you of why you exist - to give pleasure and not necessarily to receive it. You are there to serve and be used, and your nasty little worm is not important.
Perhaps I might lock you up because you've been taking your pleasure for granted? Yes; you think you have a right to a release. You don't and I will be more than happy to demonstrate this.
Or maybe I will lock you up simply because I want to? I will lock you up when I like and for as long as I like. I'm not adverse to keeping you locked for months at a time. One of My subs has spent 12 months in chastity, with relentless teasing and denial. That is an example as to just how sadistic I can be when it comes to keeping you locked up.
I also have the power to put your chastity sentence to public vote, as I've discussed in a previous post. Having the public decide how long you must be locked for, is an instant turn on both for Me and for you. Will it be days, weeks or months? Only they can decide.
One thing you can be sure of though; when I lock you up you will see out your ENTIRE SENTENCE. No time off for good behaviour. No early release. No parole. While I don't currently offer a key-holding service; I am more than capable of ensuring you stay locked. See it as a test of obedience - only unlock yourself without permission if you NEVER want to serve Me again.....
Seeking to be locked up where you belong? Get in touch to discuss your needs...