How long have you been in the BDSM & Fetish Scene?
I have been practising Online Domination & Fetish Exploration for approximately 16 years, and Financial Domination for 10 years. I started out as a Telephone Dominatrix, before branching out into webcam Domination some 3 years later. I thoroughly enjoy My job and get a huge amount of satisfaction from helping gentlemen explore their kinky desires. I pride Myself on being very open-minded, friendly an approachable, provided of course I am approached in the correct and respectful manner.
How do you conduct your sessions?
Sessions are conducted via webcam, text chat or phone. This can be either via AdultWork, Niteflirt or via a private booking with Me. Email Training is also available for those who prefer to be trained that way. I am generally available for webcam and phone sessions 12.30pm to 4.30pm Monday, Thursday, Friday, occasionally Saturday, and Sunday. Text Chat is available every evening 7.30pm until 10pm. Discretion and privacy are always assured.
What is your favourite BDSM activity?
As a natural Sadist; I particularly enjoy CBT , Sissy Training, Chastity Training & Humiliation, yet I thoroughly enjoy many practises & fetishes. Currently; I'm starting to experiment more with Psychological Domination and Mind Control, and this is proving to be a fascinating learning process.
How would you describe your style of dress?
I adore vintage, in particular the 1940's and 1950's era of vintage. Bettie Page & Dita Von Teese are My style icons and I am pretty much a cross between the two. While I enjoy wearing leather, latex & PVC, I like to lean towards burlesque and vintage pin up. To Me; pin up is both sexy and alluring.
How would you describe your style of Domination?
I'm very quick-witted so you can expect a lot of humiliation & sarcasm in My sessions. But I also like to keep it fun. What is the point of doing something if you don't enjoy it? That said however; I believe Domination is deeply psychological and have always been fascinated into the workings of a human mind. Reading the psyche of a submissive is an interesting journey and so I cater My sessions towards that. You can tell a lot from a person's body language rather than the words they say, so I often cater My style of Domination to the psychological triggers I notice in a submissive.
I am also very strict and ALWAYS in control. I pride Myself of being ruthless and merciless. Boys who want a Dominatrix who likes to switch should stay clear. I NEVER switch. For Me; the power of being in control is the biggest turn on.
What kind of subs do you like?
It goes without saying that I like boys who are devoted, honest and obedient. Every Dominatrix likes that. But to me; the kind of submissive I particularly enjoy are indeed a rare breed. I like boys who are prepared to lose their inhibitions and try new things, boys who enjoy the bizarre and "unorthodox", and are not afraid to have their eyes opened to the range of fetishes out there, just waiting to be explored and discovered. A boy with an open mind is worth his weight in gold!
I also like boys who put Me first and submit because they desire to give control to another. Submission is either given or it isn't. But when it is given; it's a beautiful gift and with interaction, honesty and discovery, it can lead to a very rewarding relationship for both parties.
What is your favourite part of being a Online Dominatrix?
In a word - POWER! There is something deeply addicted above taking control over another; just like many of My subs find it very addictive to give up control. To Me; it's a massive turn on and awakens a carnal desire deep within My mind. It's also the thrill of providing boys an outlet for their frustrations; particularly if they are in positions of power in their vanilla lives. To switch from being the controller to the controlled can be very therapeutic and helps to keep that equilibrium balanced.
Being able to chat to gentlemen from all walks of life is what makes My job extra special. Every client has a story to tell and each and every one is interesting. I like to see Myself as not just a Dominatrix, but a facilitator of kink; where clients can spend just a little time, exploring the desires they wouldn't normally be able to explore in their vanilla life. Being given the chance to be completely uninhibited is like a form of therapy for many of My clients, as it provides an outlet to help them release stress & pressure from their normal, every day lives. I am proud to be able to share that journey with them.
What are your pet hates?
Boys who don't know how to show respect. From the very first greeting; respect is as absolute MUST. Greeting a Dominatrix with the word "hey" or "hi bb", is definitely going to turn Me off. Neither is it going to gain a positive response. I loathe boys who are not submissive but get off on the idea of being submissive. That is not true submission; and I don't entertain these types.
I also loathe boys who beg for My attention. I receive countless emails with "please own me Mistress" or "I'll do anything to be yours, Mistress! I beg you!" Those emails go into the bin; because I can see straight through them. Boys who beg seldom have anything to offer. Contacting a Dominatrix is rather like applying for a job. You have to be formal, respectful and demonstrate WHY you should be considered.
What should one expect from an online session with you?
Your session will be a magical and exciting journey into the deepest desires you never knew you had. Often; My subs come away having learned something about themselves. My sessions are intense but fun; and you will always leave with a smile on your face. I like boys who are keen to actively participate in sessions with toys & equipment; as I find it most entertaining. Indeed; boys who like to use toys during the session, will often find they have been a part of something deeply satisfying and spiritual. It helps them to really explore that side of their personality.
I also ensure limits are ALWAYS respected, so both parties can enjoy themselves. Relief at the end of the session is considered, but not guaranteed.
Do you offer nudity in your sessions?
No. I am a Goddess therefore, My body is out of bounds for My subs. If I decide My subs are deserving, then I may go topless on occasion. But full nudity is NEVER offered. Domination is a state of mind; not a state of nudity.
Do you offer Real-Time sessions?
Unfortunately; due to being disabled I am unable to offer real-time sessions.
Do you sell personal items?
Sometimes I do. Usually; it's by request as I don't sell items as a matter of course. If a sub wants to purchase something personal of Mine; then they are always welcome to ask. Such items can include panties, stockings, tights, used tissues, toe nail clippings, used lipstick, socks and foot dust.
What one piece of advice could you give to somebody who is new in the BDSM/Fetish scene?
NEVER assume you know everything about the scene; because you really don't. Fetish is changing all the time; as are BDSM practises. That's why it is so very important to research the scene before you dive into it. And take your responsibilities seriously - yours and your fetish partner's. BDSM is not something to go into blindly, so ensure you at least know the basics and any possible risks; so avoid a nasty surprise later on.
How important is SSC & RACK to you?
EXTREMELY. It is a common misconception that Online Dommes just sit on webcam and give out orders. They don't. Being a Dominatrix means you take on a variety of different roles; teacher, carer, therapist and nurturer. You are always responsible for the health & well-being of a sub, and I take this very seriously. If a sub wants to indulge in a fetish or practise I consider to the dangerous; then I can and will refuse. Similarly; a sub has a health condition and wants to indulge in something which could risk their health; I can and will refuse. SSC & RACK are there or a reason. As are limits. Both are never open for negotiation.
What things will you not indulge?
As a general rule; anything with the "yuck" factor or anything illegal. Neither will I engage in Racial Humiliation, Adult Baby, needles, knives or Breathe Play. I'm often asked about smoking fetish; but this is not something I offer as I am not a smoker - I do vape though; so will indulge those with a vaping fetish.
Does Mistress like to receive gifts?
Gifts are always welcome from devoted boys and I am delighted to be able to give you the opportunity to enjoy treating Me in this way. I adore vintage lingerie; in particular the What Katie Did range and of course Dita Von Teese's personal range. I enjoy all forms of pin up/vintage clothing, make up, designer perfume and fetish wear. Feel free to contact Me if you desire to send Me a gift.
How should a sub approach you if they want to serve?
As long as they are over 21; anyone who is genuinely submissive are welcome to contact Me. But the most important part to remember is HOW they contact Me. One sentence emails are always ignored, as are self-indulgent emails. They should contact Me with details of the kind of things they enjoy, and how they propose to enrich My life with their servitude. Respectful emails from the point of view of Mistress, will often receive My attention. Honesty, respect and intellect are rewarded with a response.
Do you offer custom clips?
Not at the moment; but it is something I am considering offering in the near future. Stay tuned for details!
Do you offer a key-holding service?
I do not offer this service at this time.
What payment/tribute methods does Mistress use?
I accept payment for sessions/assignments and tributes via NiteFlirt, Amazon Uk Gift Card, Delivery Code Voucher and Google Pay.
What advice one piece of advice would you give to a new Femdom?
Always be yourself. If you try to be somebody you're not; you will eventually be found out and it will not end well. If you want your subs to be genuine; you yourself must be genuine.
Does Mistress take requests for particular outfits?
Outfits are merely props. It's My brain which has the control over you. And I wear whatever I feel most comfortable in.
Does Mistress allow Body Worship?
Not under any circumstances. My body is that of a Goddess and submissives will never be worthy of it. Covered ass worship is allowed; once you have proven yourself worthy of this honour. Foot worship is encouraged.
May I wear a mask or hood in session?
Of course! If you do not wish to show your face during a cam session; I am more than happy to accommodate this.